bromance II

Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I could get with who I wanted
And I'd never get confronted for it
Cause they stick up for me
-if i were a boy-

bromance : a mixture of the term "brother" and "romance" leading to non sexual love between two male friends.

the bonds between guys are something we girls will never understand so don't try. and they come with rules that every guy adheres to as faithfully as they do say, football rules.
(like when guys watch football together "handball! ish, unfair dowh ref tu")
the bro code. if you watch "how i met your mother" you'll know what i'm talking about. now, i am all for the bro code. i think guys should have integrity and loyalty among themselves, no matter how misplaced. i grew up with all these guys with all these codes.

the first i went to a barbekue with my first bf and all his friends. i looked at one of his friends longer than 2 seconds (what? he was cute.). and the guys locked in on me and educated me on the rules in the club, namely,

now that i've dated *** i can never date another guy in this group. ever.

okay, i can respect that. and through the course of the years, i've grown accustomed to guys' sometimes stupid and often sexist rules (voir previous post)

of course, the guys we know don't always follow those rules, they're kinda guidelines anyway.

situation 1 : Lelaki A's two best friends are a couple B and C (C's the girl) and A knows that B is fooling around with another girl on the side. Even when C is crying on A's shoulder asking why is B being such a jerk is he cheating on her, A says nothing. A does nothing. A even fist bumps B for being cool with the chicks.
A: what? it's none of my business. ça se fait pas.

Really, your best friend's crying and even though you kesian at her you don't even say anything to B?
KEJI.

situation 2 : Your friend D's eyeing a girl for a while and you know it. But since nobodies attached, she's cute and you think D won't have a chance with her - best man wins, right. Only yeah, you get he girl but D won't speak to you anymore....totally his loss kan.

KEJI.

bro code and all is great, until someone gets hurt. bro code is about loyalty. but life is about decency.

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